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1st date for me is always a coffee shop. I dont drink coffee but the atmosphere is relaxed, and is great for conversation. IMO the ability to have a good conversation is #1, this lets you know right from the start, and is inexpensive.
2nd date I usually do something like take her to a poolhall or put-put like said above. She's already relaxed around you, and a little easy competition is always good.
Personally I hate movies dates until you're already had a handfull of previous dates. Yeah if you're shy it's a lot easier not having to talk, but you dont develope any sense of who she is, vice versa for her.
Besides, girls get dates a lot easier than guys, and 90% of guys are all the same. They all do the dinner/movie date, and every girl is sick of it. Be origional, if you cant think of anything the best people to ask is ... <drumroll> other girls. Ask them what's the most memorable dates they have, I almost garantee you they're not movie dates.
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