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Originally posted by googleplex
Alright, I've been thinking about this for a while. Does hard-to-get actually work?
I know this seems infantile, but I was talking to a buddy and we agreed that if you know a girl wants you, you sort of lose interest.
So in saying this, if you show a girl/guy that you're indifferent whether or not you're into them or not, does this peak their interest? Does it leave them wanting more?
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It depends on what and who you're looking for - playing hard to get will get you lonely,very lonely in fact - there's so much more to share with one an other ones you get connected - playing hard to get doesn't get you nowhere close, even if it would work in the long term, you and she/him would be stuck with tons of why's and how come's - why would you want to go trough that?
John Paul the 2nd is hard to get, and I'm sure there are tons of nuns who are out to get him, but I think the "mystification" would be to much for them to handle if they'de finaly get a 101 - if you want someone to like you for who you are, then there is no fun in playing games, keep the game playing for the moment you do get to know her/him - by that time you'll have gained his/her trust, and you'll be able to play around with it and enjoy stretching a few more boundires than you will by playing the "mystic one".