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Originally posted by dieter
Positioning. Seriously. If you experiment a little, you should be able to find a position or two where she's really enjoying it, but you just don't feel much sensation. When you're getting too close, switch to that position (or movement, etc) until the urge passes.
Note, it might not help a lot if she's a multiple orgasmer, as the feel of her cumming can send ya over.
Note2: I've found that if you try all the way in, and don't move in and out so much as grind your hips (slowly) in circles around on hers, the chicks love it and it just doesn't have that much sensation on the penis.
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I think that is the best advice - firts try to satisfy your women by giving her some pleasure in advance (for play) second try out some moves, try to find those that she really likes and that you can "handle" without climaxing - "girl on top with facing each other" usually works for me, my gf really likes it and it's "easy" for me - switch positions whenever you find yourself tempted to close - but don't be shy about closing either, sometimes a woman can really get hung up about the fact that you have gotten your pleasure without any additional questions asked, it is NOt a competition - and you don't have to climax simultaniously every time, just try and find a good balance for both.