Everything I am saying is true of Califonia law only, I've not certain if they are the same for other states.
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Originally posted by soccerchamp76
If you go to the authorities, she being 18, would complicate it because she was underage drinking.
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Actually, it doesn't complicate anything for her. It does them. It was illegal for them to give alcohol to her. Their house, their party, their responsiblity. One more criminal charge against them.
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Originally posted by sixate
I fail to see where she resisted.....She certainly didn't resist giving a hand job. Is giving a hand job also rape? If so I shoulda been put in jail when I was 15.
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An inebriated person cannot legal consent to any sexual activity (in CA at least) meaning it was indeed sexual assault (assuming it took place in CA) Not rape, but sexual assault.
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Originally posted by sixate
A little more info this time, but my opinion doesn't change. The problem is in the alcohol. If she never got drunk and high it never woulda happened. Fine, she's on pills from an accident, but she should know better. Never mix pills with alcohol. Drunk people who get taken advantage of deserve it. I'm not criticizing. I'm helping by telling you to tell her to never drink and she will never have that happen again. Can you honestly say I'm wrong....
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No, I can't say you are wrong. But the laws (in CA) says none of that matters, it is just more bad news for the guys.
Seriously, this girl should talk with a local rape/sexual abuse counselor. In all likelihood, her mom need never find out about it because rape-shield laws are designed to protect her privacy. Even from her mother. Again, I don't know where you live, so I don't know what laws are applicable to this situation, but the counselor should. Also, you can look into your school's handbook, I'm sure they have rules against what guy a and b did, and punishment (likely expulsion) while at the same time protecting the girls privacy (which does not work, but it would not be come public-public information, only rumour which her mother need not hear).