Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - View Single Post

Cycler · 12-14-2003, 07:03 PM

Been right here in this situation not long ago. Except I was there and had the opportunity to throw the guys out before it went too damn far, it went far enough but that is another story. I felt guilty because I didn't realize to stop it sooner (I was in another part of the house). But like others have said she made the decision to drink, they made the decision to drink. Bad decisions are made by all involved when alcohol is consumed in large quantities. I encouraged my friend to go get help, had a heart to heart with the gentlemen involved, and followed my friend's lead in what she wanted done and or reported. Her body her decision. I don't like how my friend handled it but I will support her. I made it clear that I would not be a party to anymore of the bs that happened to her and them. <p>In short follow your friends wishes in this situation. It happened to her asnd the only thing you can do is support her no matter if you disagree or what. That is what friends have to do sometimes, be there to help pick up the pieces.

12-14-2003, 07:03 PM	#29 (permalink)
Cycler Float on.... Alright Location: Where the wind comes sweeping down the plains, i.e. Oklahoma	Been right here in this situation not long ago. Except I was there and had the opportunity to throw the guys out before it went too damn far, it went far enough but that is another story. I felt guilty because I didn't realize to stop it sooner (I was in another part of the house). But like others have said she made the decision to drink, they made the decision to drink. Bad decisions are made by all involved when alcohol is consumed in large quantities. I encouraged my friend to go get help, had a heart to heart with the gentlemen involved, and followed my friend's lead in what she wanted done and or reported. Her body her decision. I don't like how my friend handled it but I will support her. I made it clear that I would not be a party to anymore of the bs that happened to her and them. <p>In short follow your friends wishes in this situation. It happened to her asnd the only thing you can do is support her no matter if you disagree or what. That is what friends have to do sometimes, be there to help pick up the pieces. __________________ "I'm not even supposed to be here today." "I assure you we're open."