Today i had a rather enlightening experience (well for me
). I was walking back from getting my regular IC (iced coffee) at about 1:30pm and i found myself walking behind someone. When i was walking, i was sorta looking at the ground intially, i first noticed that person's butt
(as usual
)
first thought was "oh yeah" (like an approval of it's goodness
)
and then next i look up further and realise it was a guy, and i was immediatley detered. Anyway, i osrta continued back to work, uneffected by the experience. Although i was thinking a bit afterwards, how there's lots of guys with pretty good asses
i mean simply as a relatively tight bit of flesh, they're generally pretty good. I don't know how i noticed this or come to the realisation
I think it's sorta related to the upside-down triangle shape, which guys upper bodies assume. So they're narrower near the waistline, hence tight butt
Now this next bit, is quite narcissitic, but i don't think it's as bad as it sounds? it's not like a fret over this stuff or anything, i think everyone does it to a degree anyway?
OK, so later on, i went to take a piss. Now, in the toilets at work, they have a mirror on the side you can look at. As i was going
i was sorta looking at myself (here's the narcissism
). ANyway, things quickly got to what i was thinking about before and i was looking at my ass (through my shorts
). It then got a little further and i was feeling it
now this was not sexual at all! well not for my own pleasure, BUT i was thinking that if (god bless it
) my ass was on a chick (albeit, wiothout the excess hair
), it would be pretty good. That probably sounds really bad and fucked up and all, although when you reduce it just to a bit of flesh, rather than a guys or girls ass, they really are quite similar, if not the same?
With this thought, of how SOMETIMES male and female body parts are sorta equilivant, it's weird that maybe?, small things get in the way and deny us more pleasure?
For instance, getting rid of all the other emotional stuff and putting sex down to just pleasure and a means of feeling good (which is generally the reason we have sex anyway) you'd think that if you got past that it's a guy (from a guy's point of view atm), how different is it, to getting a blowjob from a girl? or even a whole host of other sex acts.
Be it kissing, anal sex, handjobs/fingering or sometimes feeling other body parts which are erogenous and on both sexs (like butts, feet or something?).
I've heard stories of where transexuals end up getting with guys, and the pleasure is all good, until the transexual gets his dick out and then suddenly it's no fun anymore?
So if you could, sorta approach sex, with a non-the-wiser attitude, maybe you could attain more pleasure from more people? or just generally open things and oppurtunities up alot more?
It seems that still, it's cool for females to be more bi-curious and try things out with either sex (somewhere people think it's cool and it's encourage by males, or females have less judgemental fears, or 'cause they don't hvae much testostorone...or whatever? i don't really know
), whereas males, maybe still sub-sonciously attach with a fear of gay stigma or some other testostorone condtition about their manhood, that they're less willing to experiment with it.
When ultimately, i think, if you get past that it's a guy (which probably is a pretty a big step, something that i probably couldn't get over anyway, despite myself wrinting this? hypercritical...yes
) then you could still attain a lot of sexual pleasure. I am not trying to justify homosexuals or anything, cause there is nothing to justify, moreso just pointing out, that a lot of things normal heterosexual guys could do with girls, could also be done with other guys, and it isn't that different from if it was a girl. My case in point again, is some stories i've heard over confused and mistaken transexuals.
Basically, a final question. If you were blindfolded and a girl performed oral sex on you and then later on a guy did. I don't think you really couldn't tell the difference?
same as if you're into anal sex, and you had anal sex with a girl and then guy, you couldn't really tell the difference. So i find it interesting, that we sometimes deny this avenue of pleasure?
Albeit, i am not really into one night thingies anyway, even with girls, nor care for a sorta of romantic/emotional thing with a guy (girls are much better at that
) anyway, but this is just a general observation, thought i had today. Which interested me, so i thought i'd share it?
ok, i feel a little vulnerable after writing this, so if you're going to say something stupid or jokingly, it's probably better left unsaid, cause i might take it the wrong way in my vulnerable state