HTG does work. I have never been able to play that game effectively, but I saw my sister-in-law land her husband using this. On the other hand, playing HTG can have some repercussions. Frankly most couples never get beyond a surface understanding of each other, and this is due to not being honest in their communications. If you want to reach a deep understanding of each other, you have to be able to communicate effectively. The times my wife and I have had problems is when she might not completely "know" how the relationship is going. By talking about it a lot and in effect not playing HTG, we get along so much better.
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