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One of the best ways to last long is to not be so damn excited you're gettin' some. Kick back, take it easy, relax and just enjoy. Part of this means taking your time, part of it is breathing deeply, part of it is position, part of it is pace and distraction (like stopping and kissing for a few), moving around, etc.
Lately, I've been so in that mode, lasting 1-1.5 hours hasn't been a problem. Then she gets concerned that I can't get off...nothing to be concerned about...I'm loving every second of it. Its not about blowing the load, its about being with someone. Once you get in that space, controlling orgasm is much easier for us guys.
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