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Wow, my first post, and would love to be able help you out here.
Maybe there is a way to overcome this mindblock about masturbation. I have always masturbated since probably age 12 and in my younger years had felt a little guilty about it, almost like it was wrong. I think it was due to the fact that when I was 7, an old man thought it ok to play with my clitoris while sitting on his knee....and I was told not to tell my Mom or we wouldn't have a place to live (he was the landlord). It took me many years to overcome the fact that it was ok for me to masturbate. Maybe your wife has a dark secret that she just can't come out and tell you....it is a very hard thing to talk about abuse. I still have not told my partner about it, but I have overcome this obstacle and my partner and I enjoy the joy and sensation of masturbating each other.
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