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Originally posted by seaker
In my humble opinion, you need to leave her alone. The worst "friend" is the one trying to tell you you need to change. I have friends that have been smoking pot for 20 years (or more), they are quite successful in the general American ideal of success. It's amazing how many people I have met in my life that I would have never guessed they smoked if I didn't see if for myself. I felt just like you. I was not into the drug/party scene at all, but they are terrific friends and I wouldn't change them for the world. I believe The_Wall is pretty right on. Good luck...I believe in the end you will find out it's easier to accept or leave than fight what you think is the problem.
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I am right behind this person. My husband & I smoke almost every night and it's just fun to enjoy and wind down together. I have never knows ANYONE who acts more negatively when they smoke weed. Besides, the changes they are making may be what they want and it is afterall their choice. Don't take this personally- I would say this to anyone, 1- you haven't experienced it yourself (not saying you should or have to), 2- don't judge a book by its cover. Weed is the only drug we do, we have tried others, but none are safe and enjoyable like pot is. If you care for this person, you will accept what they are doing, and still love them no matter what.