I need help with my roommate!!!
This past semester has tested my character and patience in new ways I never throught possible. This was the first year I have had a roommate, and I didn't think it would be that bad. But from the first week I had problems with him. He is a nice guy but lacks many hygiene and social skills necessary to survive. My roommate is a big guy who sweats and smells a lot and wouldn't really shower. Plus his dirty clothes smell like ass. He is very inconsiderate of my stuff (he lost some stuff of mine) and won't take the blame for it. What I'm telling you is just a few things. Anyways, he only has one friend from this floor and it works out that his friend's roommate wants to move out. So we were going to move in together and just have my roommate and his friend room together. But I don't know how to address it. Sould I just keep it strictly to we are different people with different living styles or expand on the shit I've had to go through with him? The losing stuff of mine really bugs me and I want him to pay me back. Plus, I didn't even give him permission to use my things. Part of me wants to be a complete asshole and just bitch him out, but I don't think that would do any good.
Any input you have would be really helpful, Thanks!
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