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Sometimes us women are weird about things like this. We tend to take things a little to personally. I understand what your wife means to some extent. Before I had fully developed my now very open mind on sex I was the same way. I could not understand why a man would need to masturbate when he had me. Then talking to more and more men who were not my S.O. I found out that they ALL do it and they do it ALL the time regardless of who their woman was. Somehow your wife needs to come to the understanding that this is not something that is directed towards her. This is innate sexual behavior. I guess as bad as this sounds......don't let her catch you if you know it will continue to upset her. As far as making her feel more comfortable with her own sexuality.....well that may take time. SLowly introduce her to all the wonderful things you two can share together and most importent make sure she knows just how much she turns you on.
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