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well, so far im keeping control of my situation i stated earlier... Tonight I am going to "chill" with my ex and then I am supposed to meet up with one of the girls tomorrow to get coffee (not quite sure yet).... and then Next Friday I made plans to join the OTHER girl for her birthday.... i dont know where this will take me... but after talking a lot with my ex and where we stand, i am realizing that i am indeed single, and i need to start acting like it (lord knows she is probably talking to guys behind my back as well)
On another note, I went to the mall the other day with my friend, and out of NO WHERE, not one but TWO girls approached me at different times during my walk around the mall. The first one worked at the food court, while i was ordering, i kept eye contact with her the entire time, gazing into her eyes, this worked very well, i was absorbing the vibes of interest she was giving the whole time... after i ordered i sat down with my friend to eat, then "ironically" she happens to go on break that moment, so i figured it was sort of planned out and i turned around and talked with her for like 20 minutes, I ended by saying i had go shopping, and she told me "well now you know where i work" and i used a nice little line "now i have a reason to return"... and i left
the second girl worked at Spencers, (not sure if you guys have them at your malls, but its a novelty store and they sell blacklights, lava lamps, crazy but cool shit) well im look at the blacklights with my friend (so i can buy one for my sisters b-day) and low and behold, this girl (a supervisor at this store) walks up to me and says "oh thats and 18" black light, they are on sale"... it was funny because we obviously knew what we were shopping for (me and my friend knew she said that just to make conversation)... so i decided to go talk to her since she made the initial contact.. i went back up to her and asked her what she was studying (she had this huge binder in her hand) and from there we hit it off, i asked her about her school and life, she asked me about mine... it went on for another 20 minutes, and i said well i gotta get going... she said well nice getting to know you, come back sometime, and i used my line again.. "well now i have a reason to come back".... and i left...
It was GREAT... i didnt get there phone numbers cause i didnt want to act hastily (plus i already have more than enough to worry about with the other 3-4 girls im talking to)... but i decided that i would go back in a week and check back up on them.... to see whats up, perhaps i will get there numbers there.....
It was definitly a fun time.....
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