Many years ago I was a doorman at a strip club in Canada for a couple of years, and I have zero idea the appeal of strip clubs. But after two years of that crap, I'm a little jaded.
The number one rule that dozens of drunk guys would try to break every night was - STAY OFF THE STAGE! Don't even make it look like you're headed up there. Every night we'd get some drunk fool arguing with us that the girl motioned for him to join her.
And the other advice here is very sound. While most strippers have very jaded attitudes towards men, and life in general, they still like to be treated with respect. Don't be a pig, but be there to "appreciate her" and you'll have a much better time.