Sounds complicated.
I prefer simplicity...otherwise you'll never know which way is up.
Maybe it's as easy as you are not ready to settle down yet.
Admit that to yourself, and admit that to others,
and base your interactions on that.
Once others know where you are going with it,
then all the other bullshit is out of the way.
But remember, you can't have it both ways,
you need your relationships open or closed
play or commit
people cannot emotionally do both.
(if you do, you start dealing with trust issues & needs)
Once you decide, then it will all become clearer.
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