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cheerios · 12-05-2003, 10:45 AM

thats not what that thread says at all, RAGEAngel... most of the advise there is "don't sound silly by actually ASKING straight up." it DOES however also say "if she want's to stop, she'll let you know." Women don't have to explicitly give permission, as in "Chris, I hereby sign this noterized form allowing you to have sex with me on May the third between the hours of 10 pm and 11:59 pm." It's just not practical. but if you expect us to be able to casually agree, via "silence", then shouldn't we also be able to say no, via non-verbal cues? If I take your hand out of my pants and push you away, yeah, I probably don't want your hand there. and if I don't want your hand there, I guarantee I dont' want anything else there. That should be a pretty fuckin' clear signal.

12-05-2003, 10:45 AM	#46 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	thats not what that thread says at all, RAGEAngel... most of the advise there is "don't sound silly by actually ASKING straight up." it DOES however also say "if she want's to stop, she'll let you know." Women don't have to explicitly give permission, as in "Chris, I hereby sign this noterized form allowing you to have sex with me on May the third between the hours of 10 pm and 11:59 pm." It's just not practical. but if you expect us to be able to casually agree, via "silence", then shouldn't we also be able to say no, via non-verbal cues? If I take your hand out of my pants and push you away, yeah, I probably don't want your hand there. and if I don't want your hand there, I guarantee I dont' want anything else there. That should be a pretty fuckin' clear signal.