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That Bob/Michelle story was rape. It was rape at the exact instant that he forceably stopped her from screaming with the pillow.
Lets face it, girls say "no" and "stop" all the time, but most of the time it is in a gentile tone which usually means "not right now." Call me whatever you want, but in that story it was not until he used physcial means was it rape.
Would you really be turned on by a guy who asks if he can kiss you? then if he can touch your breast? then asks if he can.... The simple answer is no, you wouldnt, it'd take away from everything.
Yes, she said "no" and "stop." But her physical actions implied something else. Yes she withdrew but it didnt stop from her kissing him, which implied something else.
I'm sorry you may have felt like you were raped if the guy kept pestering you. It was not rape. He's a dick, but he's not a rapist. Rape is forced.
rape ( P ) Pronunciation Key (rp)
n.
1)The crime of forcing another person to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse.
2)The act of seizing and carrying off by force; abduction.
Definitions are key, in the definition I found it said nothing about deception. This is where we differ. A woman whom I dont wish to have sex with can pester me until the end of time it wont change my decision. It's simple to me, if she chains me down and has her way it's rape. If I break down and agree it's a bad decision.
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