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Originally posted by water_boy1999
I offer a different side to it. I workout in the mornings at 4:30am. At that time in my gym, there is quite a large population of gay men there. I know because my ass cheeks are usually getting warm...just kidding. Really though. I do feel like a piece of meat sometimes. I used to shower there in the morning because of convenience, but I have since stopped because of a few instances where I was really uncomfortable. They have open shower stalls and as I turned around one day while under the water, there were 2 gays guys across from me totally checking my out while I showered. On another occasion, I caught some guy peeking around the corner, staring at some other guy as be bent over to dry himself.
I have also talked to gay men about this. The last guy I spoke with had the hots for me and actually told me, and I qoute, "Do all of us gay men a favor and shower there more often." So, even if we don't know that someone is gay, it is still the idea of having my privacy compromised that unisex bathrooms would work better than having exclusive bathrooms for gays.
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Just be flattered that gay men find you attactive. Probably means you are just as attractive to the women-folk as well. Don't worry about it unless one actually hits on you. Calmly tell him that you aren't gay, not interested, and the news of your heterosexual preference will spread like wildfire through the small gay gym-member society.
Women have put up with this for ages. Men they wouldn't want any attention from still give them the unwanted attention, and they have lived with it just fine.