My wife absolutely doesn't want to have sexual contact during that time just because she feels gross. However what I have taken to doing is to just touch her. I'll often come up behind her and put my hands up the back of her shirt to touch her upper back, skin. Her back is her biggest errogenous zone. I'll then nuzzle her neck a bit. All of this provides a nice buildup for when we do have sex again (usually the first moment possible afterwards).
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