Dorito2, I wonder if you and I had the same girlfriend. Maybe we just like to look at other girls too often for our respective exes.
uptown, a roving eye and an idle curiosity are normal things, even when someone is involved in a relationship. I think that people who don't look are trying too hard to convince themselves they're in the right place. If you're trying that hard, you're probably not.
The question then becomes: do you have a roving eye and an idle curiosity from time to time? If you worry that you're not loved, are you sure that you're happy and in love yourself?
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