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Originally posted by streak_56
I think that using the terms mature and adult should be used becuase my sister made the desicion that sex would be correct for her to do. And to me sex is an adult desicion. Plus she has only been going out with him for about 3 months. And if you have met him hes a real big loser, but I'm a big brother I'm not suppose to like him. Anyways back to the topic at hand. Sex is an adult desicion and I think that you have to have certain level of maturity and I don't think that my sister has that maturity.
If she was 18 it would be different. I think that when your 18 you reach a certain level where you can be trusted with more stuff than you were if you were younger. But you know everyone is never going to agree on this issue its never going to be straightened out. It all depends on how you were raised among other things.
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Okay I see your point in this, there is just two things i have objections about. Maturty doesn't come from age it comes from experience (which your sister were after), adulthood has nothing to do with age and everything to do with responsibility (which your sister lacked). But enough about that.
Yes I agree that this is a subject with as many opinions as there are humans, there is no way we will ever find a middle path in this methinks.
The thing I was aiming at in the previous post was that you called those who though your mother was wrong children and those who agreed with her adults. That's the namecalling I was aiming at. As well as those who yells puritan. I just don't think that those kinds of personal attacks belong here.