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Cervantes · 11-30-2003, 10:28 PM

Yes she is allowed to create what rules she wants, but that kind of rule is a simple powertrip. It has no other purpose than to exert power over you and your sister, simply because she can.

Since when did holding on to ancient moral anekdotes become "mature" behaviour? That is stagnated behaviour.
Mature behaviour is to see the errors our parents made and correct them in our own children, it is to constantly evolve our thoughts and ideas as well as moral values. Our parents are far from perfect when it comes to morals. It is up to us to improve it and to pass them on to our children so they can continiue to improve them. It is never done or finished.
To call us who think that your sister is right immature, is trolling.

There are no sure things in life, getting you kids to avoid sex is not safe either. there are no such thing as a 100% degree if certainty in anything in life. She might get hit by a car on her way to the library, she might get cancer, she might get killed in a random gunfight. To say that sex is more dangerous in any way is preaching ignorance. It's free, its fun, it is safe compared to many of the risks most people take, without even thinking about it, in their everyday life.
What your mother should do is sit down with your sister and really explain to her what sex is about. Both the negative and the positive side. Not to make rules she knows she will break and then give her shit for it. What's the point of making yourself into your kids enemy?

Just out of curiosity;
Does sex immediatly rule out college and making something of yourself!?! Is it really impossible to have sex and a lucrative career?

11-30-2003, 10:28 PM	#54 (permalink)
Cervantes Psycho Location: Above you	Yes she is allowed to create what rules she wants, but that kind of rule is a simple powertrip. It has no other purpose than to exert power over you and your sister, simply because she can. Since when did holding on to ancient moral anekdotes become "mature" behaviour? That is stagnated behaviour. Mature behaviour is to see the errors our parents made and correct them in our own children, it is to constantly evolve our thoughts and ideas as well as moral values. Our parents are far from perfect when it comes to morals. It is up to us to improve it and to pass them on to our children so they can continiue to improve them. It is never done or finished. To call us who think that your sister is right immature, is trolling. There are no sure things in life, getting you kids to avoid sex is not safe either. there are no such thing as a 100% degree if certainty in anything in life. She might get hit by a car on her way to the library, she might get cancer, she might get killed in a random gunfight. To say that sex is more dangerous in any way is preaching ignorance. It's free, its fun, it is safe compared to many of the risks most people take, without even thinking about it, in their everyday life. What your mother should do is sit down with your sister and really explain to her what sex is about. Both the negative and the positive side. Not to make rules she knows she will break and then give her shit for it. What's the point of making yourself into your kids enemy? Just out of curiosity; Does sex immediatly rule out college and making something of yourself!?! Is it really impossible to have sex and a lucrative career? __________________ - "Philosophy is questions that may never be answered. Religion is answers that may never be questioned.." - "Religions take everything that your DNA naturally wants to do to survive and pro-create and makes it wrong." - "There is only one absolute truth and that is that there is only one absolute truth."