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SAM821 · 11-30-2003, 06:32 PM

well... i must say that this thread is pretty informative, it gives people ideas of what the can improve on.....

Averett.... you seem like a very genuine girl, being that you are a girl you will always have men hitting on you, some will want to get into your pants, others may perhaps be the real deal. Its up to you to decipher who is who. Dont be discouraged though, just wait and things will happen for you.

I wanted to post my situation to see what you guys think... here is some background of me:

I have always been one of the "nice guys", and honest person, caring, romantic and true hearted. Well, then again, Ive always had a girlfriend, (ive been through quite a few of them....)

well i guess i am at a crossroad... do i continue to be that nice guy or do try to work on my communication skills and confidence level to meet new people. I am unsure cause it is difficult with the heart that i have... I am just a unique person, so even though I have a few people i am talking to, it seems like its gonna get me into a heap of trouble (with all of them finding out)

well here is the deal:

My girlfriend and i just broke up a month or so ago, (i am very in love with her, but it wasnt working out) well, we still have the lingering effects that usually happen in these type of breakups (we are trying to remain friends to see if things can improve, and having "beneficial" time as well) well at the same time, i am talking to one girl that i see as only having the potential to have intimate relations with. I am talking to a second girl that really likes me (but i gave her the too busy to have a relationship excuse) but i am starting to make plans with her. and finally i am talking to a 3rd girl who is a bit older than me (i am 21 she is 23) and we are having LONG talks and we are starting to like each other... well I see this ending up one of two ways... I know if i take my time ( i am single by the way so no wrongdoing is occuring) and go very slow, i can work through this and perhaps the solution will present itself as to who i will end up with (if anyone)....OR #2 I will somehow fuck up, they will get suspicious and all leave... i dont consider myself a player, nor do i want to be one, but i am interested in the experience of meeting new women, several new women...

so what do you guys think?

11-30-2003, 06:32 PM	#155 (permalink)
SAM821 Surviving Hurricanes Location: Miami, Florida	well... i must say that this thread is pretty informative, it gives people ideas of what the can improve on..... Averett.... you seem like a very genuine girl, being that you are a girl you will always have men hitting on you, some will want to get into your pants, others may perhaps be the real deal. Its up to you to decipher who is who. Dont be discouraged though, just wait and things will happen for you. I wanted to post my situation to see what you guys think... here is some background of me: I have always been one of the "nice guys", and honest person, caring, romantic and true hearted. Well, then again, Ive always had a girlfriend, (ive been through quite a few of them....) well i guess i am at a crossroad... do i continue to be that nice guy or do try to work on my communication skills and confidence level to meet new people. I am unsure cause it is difficult with the heart that i have... I am just a unique person, so even though I have a few people i am talking to, it seems like its gonna get me into a heap of trouble (with all of them finding out) well here is the deal: My girlfriend and i just broke up a month or so ago, (i am very in love with her, but it wasnt working out) well, we still have the lingering effects that usually happen in these type of breakups (we are trying to remain friends to see if things can improve, and having "beneficial" time as well) well at the same time, i am talking to one girl that i see as only having the potential to have intimate relations with. I am talking to a second girl that really likes me (but i gave her the too busy to have a relationship excuse) but i am starting to make plans with her. and finally i am talking to a 3rd girl who is a bit older than me (i am 21 she is 23) and we are having LONG talks and we are starting to like each other... well I see this ending up one of two ways... I know if i take my time ( i am single by the way so no wrongdoing is occuring) and go very slow, i can work through this and perhaps the solution will present itself as to who i will end up with (if anyone)....OR #2 I will somehow fuck up, they will get suspicious and all leave... i dont consider myself a player, nor do i want to be one, but i am interested in the experience of meeting new women, several new women... so what do you guys think?