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As a mom, I am fine with my kids having sex in my house. However, I don't want them doing it when the younger syblings can walk in on them. (There is a large age span and younger are currently only 7 and 9.) Also, at one point, one of my sons was being disrespectful to me to the point of having to involve the law. At that time I learned that it is illegal for "children under age 18" to have sex, period. Therefore I was unable to allow him to have sex in my house as I could not actively support an illegal activity.
Also, every parent has a right to make their own rules. They own the house -- every room in it -- and have a right to access whatever room they wish too when the wish too. (I believe I'm too respectful to walk in. I'd knock and say "you have 5 minutes to get downstairs" -- but your mom had every right.) I'm afraid though, that what she did is take an opportunity to discuss your sister's sexuality and safety with her, and turn it into a me vs. you situation. Sad, IMHO.
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