| 4.  I definitely don't think marriage is for everyone.  Having said that, if you truly find the RIGHT one at the RIGHT time in your life, it can be wonderful.  I disagree with what you said about the whole thing (marriage) going to hell in a second.  It really doesn't happen that way.  It's dramatic when a marriage flames out and finally collapses, but it doesn't get that way overnight.  There's usually a whole bunch of stuff that has occured under and on the surface, and it culminates in a collapse.  Things that were happening in your parents marriage may not have been apparent to you as their child. |