There are so many different interests out there nowadays. I think people are in general more open about their turn ons and things. I think that perhaps some of the stranger kinds of fetishes might just be a little one-up-man-ship going on since people are more aware of what others have tried or are interested in.
As far as marriage. I haven't had a close friend or family member break up but our marriage has come close. It has helped me re-evaluate our commitment and we've both realized the VAST amount of Commitment that one has to have in a relationship. A couple, to survive has to be so open and communicate so many things without fear of criticism for the relationship to go through the difficult times. Marriage is work. I believe it's worth it but I can easily see how some might not see the worth in it.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
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