Faking is very bad because if you don't teach him, he'll never learn and you'll never get off! First things first, you have to learn to give the mind-blowing ones to yourself. Once you do that, you'll be able to teach. Why have sex if you don't have an orgasm? All that pumping must amount to something good! Everybody must be happy when all is said and done or it wasn't worth getting naked!
Get lesbian porn and a mirror and hop on it, supperbunny6! Don't waste another second!
And yes, you'll know when you have one.