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I don't lower myself to their level and neither should any of you. It's men like that who ruin a girl's perception of the gender. I was on my last straw with boys until I met my current bf, I had been used, abused, and then cut loose. I have nothing against consentual "friends with benefits" but toying with a guy just for sex is just wrong. Luckly many guys are smart enough not to "use" a girl and while they may be the minority, it's up to us ladies to reward them with love not lies. Sure revenge may be fun if you think you can dick over a "bad guy" the way his friends dicked you, but who wins? really... was the sex all that great? I guess what I'm trying to say is that sex isn't a toy, it isn't a weapon and it sure as hell isn't free. Give it those who deserve it and keep it from those who would waste it. Sorry to be up on my soap box, but I'm tired of seeing other women use it the same way some guys use it on us.
(Side note) my rant does not encompass the many galls who go out for a night of fun, meet a handsome man they have no intention of ever talking to again, and then hook up with them for the evening. Casual sex can be great I'm sure if you are safe. And it's pretty much an accepted norm that unless somebody calls back a day or so later it was a one time deal where nobody is really getting hurt and everybody wins. The real target of my rant is to ladies who find guys for their body and use them repeatedly for just that. It's no better than finding some nerd to do your homework or tutor you except this time you are using him for brains instead of brawns. It's low... it's cheap and it isn't something any of us should do.
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