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wow great topic, i personally have thought about this ALOT! some days i feel like i'd want kids, and otehr days, i ask myself, why have a kid? its like... do i want a kid JUST because it is the right thing to do? or that everyone else is doing it, people may look at me funny or feel sorry for me if i dont have at least one kid. I mean, my sister had a kid, and i love him to DEATH i never spent so much time with anything in my entire life.
but, as I say, some days i wake up feeling like i dont even WANT a kid, all they do, is cost you money, money that you could be spending on your porche later on in life, but instead your spending it on your kids college fund, or bailing him out of jail, or anything that he may grow up to do. Yeah they bring you happiness for a few years, and if you have a good one, and raise them right, then they will keep you happy for your whole life, never letting you down, blah blah blah, but the majority of children just grow up and do nothing but cost you anguish time and money. so... it is a tough call, and its a good thing i am not yet at that age where its either YES or NO right now! because i couldnt make the decision.
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