There are a lot of jewels in this thread. The one thing i want to add though is the difference between being a real pymp and a sheep in wolfs clothing. If you go out and follow all of the tips plan9 listed you will have success with women, but more than likely if you havent had success with women before you'll get to the physical part and freeze up. Even if you can get past the foreplay and get down to the draws, you'll freeze up then because you'll start to doubt yourself at the last minute. If you really want to have success with women and even life there a few key tips from plan9 and others that you need to focus on.
1. Confidence - Confidence is what makes everything fall into place. When you are confident it changes the way you move, talk, etc and women and everyone else picks up on that. Eye contact tells a lot about a person. If you can make it and hold it strongly it shows the strength of your soul. If you lack confidence youll shuffle or stumble when you walk, your posture will be bad, your voice will crack etc. If you only act confident you will falter eventually.
2. Grooming - Keeping a neat appearance and maintaining good physical conditioning really aid your confidence. Get acquainted with a mirror. People who lack self confidence often only glance at a mirror and make minimal effort to appear clean. Become familiar with your face and body. Study it. Notice every hair that is out of place and craft your appearance.
3. Gift of Gab - Like was said before, pympin is a game of numbers and skill building. A hidden jewel of getting your rap together is older women. There are a lot of hot women in their 30s you can practice on. Having a young guy come and spit game to them will make them feel young again and attractive. They are easy targets and may even humor you even if you are not interested. This can be a useful confidence builder. And if you are lacking confidence in your sexual abilities, there is no greater teacher than an older women. Theyve done it all and seen it all and can teach it to you and show it to you.
4. CONFIDENCE - im repeating this because it is the most important. Putting on the clothes of confidence may get you a little ass, but living a new lifestyle of confidence will change your entire life. Get in the gym to have a healthy body and appearance. Learn self defense. Nothing makes you more confident than knowing that whatever happens you could kick some ass. Women pick up on that too.
It goes beyond the visual. The part of the brain that governs sexual attraction is the most primitive section. Deep down women are still looking for a cave man to protect them and provide for them. You can get far by giving off that impression. You will get farther by actually being that person. Furthermore, the strength of character and confidence you possess can be detected in pheromones. All of that info is processed by women and everyone else whether they know it consciously or not.
I want you to know that im not making this stuff up. In jr high and the first part of high school of a was skinny guy, picked on with no rap and bad acne. My sophomore year in high school a couple guys took me under their wing and taught me the same things Plan 9 and a few others are putting on this board. Aside from that they kept me in the gym, taught to me fight, and generally helped me to realize that my confidence was low. My junior year they left but by that time I was in shape, my confidence was higher and by the end of that year I had had more women that year then in my entire life. My senior year was even better. This is about more than pussy. This is about taking charge of your life.
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Last edited by Sho Nuff; 11-25-2003 at 02:33 PM..
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