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Originally posted by shrubbery
Oh .. and ask open ended questions as Sleepyjack said. If they give you a short answer such as "I don't know", don't say anything. Just look at them and wait for more. May feel a bit wierd, but you'll kinda make them open up a bit more.
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Well, for me that would shut me right down. I hate being on the spot when meeting new people. If I say something and the guy just sort of looks at me waiting I freak out. I just don't handle it very well.
I just wanted to add that I'm uncomfortable meeting new people in the first place, especially men. I'm trying to figure out why that is
