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				Originally posted by Plan9  
You shouldn't have a list of topics.  If you cannot have a simple conversation with her then she isn't going to be a good match for you anyhow.  Find one that you can talk to without having to script it. 
 
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 exactly!
Dont enter a conversation with a girl with a script of what you are going to say/not say, just let it happen, and make sure not to talk too much, listen to what she has to say.