Take it from someone who has been on the other end of your situation friend. I once dated a girl for 4 years of which about 1/2 of that time on and off another guy kept trying to break us up so he could have her. It never worked, and she always promised me it was always me and never him. Then one day she told me she'd been fooling around with him for the past couple weeks. At one point this was the girl I thought i was going to marry. The whole thing rocked my to my very core, and it hurt.
Respect your fellow males, and never try and take away their women. I think the saying goes, bros before hoes. Uphold it. Live by it.
Leave this girl to be. If she dumps him of her own accord then fine go for it, but until that point I think you should forget about it. Some girls can crave the attention and if you're showering her with it when her real boyfriend is not around she might not mind at all, and even lead you on a bit to keep it going. However, if she sees you've suddenly stopped caring then the ball's in her court and she has to decide what to do.
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