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Plan9 is right. Script will only take a conversation so far. I'd say a big thing is timing and context (as is alot of things in life). Look for an in and go with the flow, if both of you guys are feeling it then the conversation can go anywhere. It's amazing really how you can start at something so miniscule and next thing you know its an hour later and you feel like you really know someone.
You really don't even have to have common interests, in fact that can often just be boring if you guys are on the same page about everything... inquiry is key, plus I'm sure the ladies dig it because it shows that you are interested. That shouldn't really be to hard especially if you are genuinely into the girl.
Solid in's for conversations are groups. I know it would be ideal for anyone to just be able to have an intimate conversation with anyone else, but thats just not the reality. Groups are helpful because a lot of the pressure is taken off you, plus its a solid way to establish yourself. Again this has everything to do with the whole idea of not trying to force something.
Anyways I digress...
You can't have a script when approaching a conversation. Questions are one thing, but don't try and the map the whole thing out, thats trying to tame the beast and it is impossible to do. Just look for an in, which you'll be able to gauge for yourself, and go with it. Remember conversation is a two way street, if she isn't feeling it, take a hint and move on, its no biggie and nothing personal (in most cases).
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