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Esen · 11-20-2003, 04:48 PM

Maybe the one isnt the person you first meet,
Perhaps a person becomes the "one" for you through time.
After you are with someone long enough and that there is nothing you can tell them that would make you feel ashamed.
They grow with you.

The real "one" is the person you wake up with each morning and hug every night. the one who you fight with and feel hurt with. The one who you love as you love yourself.

You can only truly love someone when you can truly love yourself.
Perhaps the "one" is someone who helped nurture you to that level of love.
I don't think that the one is a number of people . but instead the fusion of yourself into someone else.
As you grow together you feed each other a kind of emotional nourishment.
And they become the one because they are now part you.

They wernt the one for you when you first met because that fusion had yet to exist.

People ask is this person really the one? well we will find out when they are or arnt there years from now to share your life joys and pains.

The life and love we lead has to overcome many obstacles and a panthera of evolving moving bridges.
It is the one who we can survive the maze with you who is the trueone.

The last person standing to throw a rose on your casket when you finally pass away, the one who never casts the last tear.

Many people say that life is a test, and maybe you can say the "one" is person who passes the test and stands at yourside at the winners circle. the circle of your love and life.

Kind of like the children. My son is also the one for me in a different way because he grows from me, and not just geneticly but emotionally and ethhicly. he has so many strands of my personality in him.

It may even tie into one of the reasons why people who adopt children have the love and devotion that any parent would have. because it may be anothers geanes in the child but it is their love and Ideals that make the child what they truly are.

i'm sorry to sound gooshy, but this is how the "one " is found for me.

and that "one" is proving to be my wife.

11-20-2003, 04:48 PM	#31 (permalink)
Esen TFPer formaly known as Chauncey Location: North East	Maybe the one isnt the person you first meet, Perhaps a person becomes the "one" for you through time. After you are with someone long enough and that there is nothing you can tell them that would make you feel ashamed. They grow with you. The real "one" is the person you wake up with each morning and hug every night. the one who you fight with and feel hurt with. The one who you love as you love yourself. You can only truly love someone when you can truly love yourself. Perhaps the "one" is someone who helped nurture you to that level of love. I don't think that the one is a number of people . but instead the fusion of yourself into someone else. As you grow together you feed each other a kind of emotional nourishment. And they become the one because they are now part you. They wernt the one for you when you first met because that fusion had yet to exist. People ask is this person really the one? well we will find out when they are or arnt there years from now to share your life joys and pains. The life and love we lead has to overcome many obstacles and a panthera of evolving moving bridges. It is the one who we can survive the maze with you who is the trueone. The last person standing to throw a rose on your casket when you finally pass away, the one who never casts the last tear. Many people say that life is a test, and maybe you can say the "one" is person who passes the test and stands at yourside at the winners circle. the circle of your love and life. Kind of like the children. My son is also the one for me in a different way because he grows from me, and not just geneticly but emotionally and ethhicly. he has so many strands of my personality in him. It may even tie into one of the reasons why people who adopt children have the love and devotion that any parent would have. because it may be anothers geanes in the child but it is their love and Ideals that make the child what they truly are. i'm sorry to sound gooshy, but this is how the "one " is found for me. and that "one" is proving to be my wife. __________________ ~Esen What is everyone doing in my room?