If anyone honestly believes they have never been a flake, then they haven't grown out of it yet. I think most people grow out of it when they are in their early 20's. If they don't it may last much longer. I've known some that grow out of it as early as 15 or 16 but I think it is rare. Being "flaky" is just part of the awkwardness of growing up, both men and women will always have this stage.
You have to give us some specifics so we can answer your question a little bit more personally.
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