*Disclaimer: I am a fairly blunt person when it comes to giving advice.*
Don't do it. How would you feel if you were in that guy's position. I've had it happen to me, and it sucks. By "hurt" I'm hoping you mean emotionally. If you're successful, yes, it will hurt him. If you mean physically....I'm not even gonna touch that one.
So she liked you. She's now with this guy. I'd say she likes him better. If you gave a crap about her, you'd probably be happy that she is happy in her new relationship. I don't presume to know any of the details but that's how I see it.
This has been stated many times, but it's true: if she cheats on her current bf to be with you, how can you be sure she's not gonna cheat on you too?
Once you get past this girl, you will probably find yourself wondering why the hell you were so sprung on her.
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