During shorts weather I shave my legs, but during winter Im not as diligent and fortunately my b/f doesnt have a preference. Armpits are a must cause I too get smelly, pussy is a must because I much prefer the way his tongue feels on a shaven area as to when I've gotten lazy and let it grow out AND there is nothing worse than him having to stop to get the hair out of his mouth
PLUS there is also less odor "down there" with less hair.