Oh boy, oh boy... I've heard that so many times. What my wife will do is she'll say something, and if I don't hear it right and ask her to repeat it, she'll sigh loudly and say "nevermind" or "nothing", and will refuse to repeat herself. It just annoys me and makes me want to say "well if you have nothing to say then shut the fuck up in the first place". But that's not really the same thing...that's a personality thing, a quirk, whereas what you're being put through is classic female nuttiness. I use the term loosely, though, because obviously not all chicks are like that. I figured when I read your story that she had found someone else and didn't want to be bothered to tell you. The classic "I dunno" reply is a typical runaround. She may in fact not have a clue, since she probably has not even thought about it. She hasn't wanted to think about it or deal with it, so she hasn't.
I think the best way to go, if you want my advice, is to not let yourself work up all these feelings for someone until the relationship is there and stuff. Even then it's a gamble, but sometimes you win, sometimes lose. It is unfortunate that in the matters of the heart the stakes are so high and up and personal.
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