well.. i thought it was time to update the good folk at tfp on the situation. i hadn't forgotten the good advice i was given here.
decided against reading anything, complete blank sheet of paper so to speak. we didnt see each other til last week - things got a bit hot and heavy, but nothing much more than some semi-naked dry humping - wrong time of the month last week... i think she was more shattered than i was.
today she came around for a few hours before she had to work tonight. this led to that, that led to this, only thing was we were a bit pushed for time, only about an hour and a half, but most of that was spent getting her motor really going - she had done stuff before, but never had sex.
the best part of it was making her squirm, shake, shiver and moan - better than the actual sex. as much as it was great to receive, i thought it was even better to give. just went with her reactions to what i was doing - she couldnt put two words together coherently til after having a shower - even then she was struggling.
just a few questions though...
i walked with her to work - she said she found it really odd walking - not difficult, but had trouble doing it compared to usual.
she was also still struggling to put two words together on the walk to work and also struggling concentrating on anything. she wasnt sure if it was a good or bad thing - the last time she had a sexual encounter she didnt experience it, but she said this time was a LOT better. so im guessing a good thing?
again, thanks for all the advice.. you made me feel a lot less nervous about it, even though she was really understanding.
cheers