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Originally posted by Mettler
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I'm starting to think that I may well be better off playing the game and just getting laid by heaps of chicks instead of trying to meet someone I like.
It seems a hell of a lot easier than trying to get to know someone. I used to do things this way until I changed my thinking over three years ago, to seeing females as people, and since then I've had way more problems trying to get them. Saddens me to say it but objectifying women has proven (to me at least) to be the way to get them.
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My take on the situation is --some women are pussies the same as men. She doesn't want to deal with the task of rejecting you to your face, so she's just ignoring you and hoping you'll go away. Men do that to women ALL the time. Really, if you're under 30, you have the rest of your life to settle down with one woman. You don't need to 'get laid by heaps of chicks' but I think young adults (myself included) usualy arn't ready for something as committed as I think you're going for right now. I think the real trick is finding that happy middle between sleeping with every girl you can find, and being in a relationship. Perhaps you should date, say, maybe 3 different woman at the same time. And by date, I do mean date, not have 3 g/f's at the same time
