when i was younger i had a real problem speaking infront of people... My brother played football infront of thousands of people and he said... How many of the people in my class you think are listening... I said about half... okay he said, how many of that 20 people are worrying about their own speach they have to give... I said about half... he said okay out of those 10 how many will i see 6 months from now...? I said maybe 3... and he asked, how many of those 3 do i care about? i said prolly 1... He said your talking to one person... relax...
It is not quite the same but look at it this way. If you worry about screwing it up you will... Just be confident.. Waht is the worst thing that can happen, she says go away. Well your away now... So if you talk to her it can only be better.... Sorta look at it that way
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