In response to the thread title:
Because, if you can't figure it out without them telling you, then you must not care enough about them.
At least this is what I've run into on several occasions. Some women, not all, but many I know, will never tell you exactly whats wrong, they want to know that you are capable of understanding them, so they want you to figure it out on their own. Kind of a test. And before someone jumps down my throat for generalizing, I know plenty of guys who do this to women too.
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