Here's a little tidbit you probably didn't expect- and might not accept either:
You are already in the game as long as you are alive and single (there is an exception, however, which is that sometimes you don't have to be single.. heh) and this is how it is whether you like it or not.
And you are losing.
I'm not saying you should go out and get laid by heaps of chicks as you put it, but rather to pick up the slack and become someone desirable and act in accordance to females so you can have a good relationship with any girl you want. If you're unemployed, depressed, don't think too highly of yourself in the looks department, then you need to break these habits (take better care of yourself is what I'm saying in short).
If you can't get a job or you're a broke-ass student or whatever, then at least take good care of yourself and be more positive, be proud of who you are.
I wish I could give you specific instructions but I don't know how, and yet we all know these things will help you, it's just common sense that they would. So why not try?
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