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mtsgsd · 11-14-2003, 05:36 AM

Just had to add my .02. I don't think that anyone has pointed this out yet, so:

I think it's important to remember that you are not married. Therefore she has to look out for herself and her interests first. The relationship is an investment that requires a certain amount of trust and risk, but that risk has to be managed.

Perhaps she's not seeing much hope of the relationship working out or becoming marriage? Or perhaps she doesn't feel that a marriage or relationship with you will produce the security she's looking for?

11-14-2003, 05:36 AM	#27 (permalink)
mtsgsd Addict Location: Wisconsin, USA	Just had to add my .02. I don't think that anyone has pointed this out yet, so: I think it's important to remember that you are not married. Therefore she has to look out for herself and her interests first. The relationship is an investment that requires a certain amount of trust and risk, but that risk has to be managed. Perhaps she's not seeing much hope of the relationship working out or becoming marriage? Or perhaps she doesn't feel that a marriage or relationship with you will produce the security she's looking for?