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Originally posted by Oopsfix
It's in class though and I dont wanna look like a jackass if i get rejected in front of everyone cause that would ruin any contact with any of my class mates and she might tell her friends what a loser i am and then im screwed til i graduate.
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ok, so as class gets out you go find a way to be near her as you exit the room. you say 'hi, i'm X. i was trying to stay awake during class today. do you think i could borrow your notes to fill in the stuff i missed?'
her answer will tell you the answer to all your questions. if she says 'i can make a copy of them and give them to you at the next class' you know she isn't interested. if she says 'my notes aren't that good' then you really know she isn't interested. if she says 'sure, do you want to go to the library and copy them?' then she is interested.
there is no risk to you and you can find out what she is thinking.
if it's one of the not interested responses and then she keeps looking at you during future classes then you have a base so you go up to her after a future class and say something like 'hey, i was kind of drifting in class today and it seemed like you were looking at me, did i have crumbs on my face from the donuts i ate before class?' if you didn't have stuff on your face, she will giggle and say something stupid. 'you remind me of a guy i used to know' 'you look like a guy my brother used to hang out with'.