Oh man, shades of my girl friend in university. I totally have experienced everything you just mentioned and a hell of a lot more. The other posters here are quite correct, it's called depression, and in my ex's case schizophrenia. (No, schizophrenia is not multiple personalities, it's best described as delusional.)
I was there man, i was there. Everything you said, i went through. I won't bore you with my stories, but i have 3 years worth of them.
My problem was that i loved her more than life itself and did all the Phil Donahue stuff. It was always one stress or another with her, school, work, exams, friends, blah blah blah.
Ask yourself if you are reacting the same way as she is since you are obviously in school too and most likely suffering the same kind of exam stress.
The best advice is given by cas305 - RUN.
In fact, I will add to that, RUN LIKE HELL. I can't stress that enough.
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