I agree with what everyone has said, I've had the same problem.
I started to go to clubs and talk to everyone in my classes. Luckily everyone in my major and classes are nerds to some degree so we would have something in common to talk about. Don't just join any clubs but join clubs that are for making friends. In my case a club like that would be ASA (Asian Student Association). They design activities so people are forced to talk and work with each other. Remember to always be nice and curtious too. Do you have a personality trait that is unique? People remember you if your unique. Also try to take lead of social activities. If a new movie comes out, ask afew people if they want to go, tell them your trying to get a group to go.
Honestly I still don't have what I would consider a group of friends to hang out all the time, but I'm working on it.
Good luck!
-Robert
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