hmmm since love is a term that usually is defined by the individual, i will hafta say the three relationships that have been the most meaningful to me, i loved the guy's personality before we even started dating. just being around him, knowing him, seeing his intelligence and everything, and on top of being physically attracted to him. but the real love feeligns came after a little bit. with js, god, i dunno. i thought i loved him right off, but then i realized i didn't. and then gradually i started really feeling it. and then one day, it was like, "whoa. i love this person."
