Sometimes the timing of a relationship is off, and you can't connect at a particular time and place (due to maturity, etc.). I went through two major relationships that destroyed me when they broke up. However, there were issues in each that would have caused problems with the future. When I met my wife and got to know her over a few dates, I knew I had found the one. It wasn't one thing, it was the total package. It was how our outlooks on life meshed, and our view of the husband-wife relationship. I think that if you are unsure about it now, it is best to take some time off or not be exclusive. Maybe she is the right one but not at this time. It sounds like she has some growing up to do.
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